Tuesday, June 10, 2008

WaJiB dI pAtuHi....

INAI BERUKIR DI TANGAN DILAKNAT ALLAH

Sekarang ini ramai orang perempuan (pengantin) memakai inai dengan mengukir ala tatu di tangan.

Mari kita sama-sama merenung hadis Nabi ini:

1. Dari Ibnu Umar ra katanya: " Bahawasanya Rasulullah s.a.w mengutuk orang yang menyambung rambut dan meminta rambutnya disambungkan. Dan (Rasulullah s.a.w) mengutuk pembuat tatu dan yang meminta ditatu"..(Hadis bil. 2003 : Sahih Muslim).

2. Dari Abu Hurairah r.a Nabi s.a.w bersabda : "Allah mengutuk wanita yang mempergunakan (memberikan) rambutnya untuk (menyambung) rambut wanita lain, wanita yang menyambung rambutnya dengan wanita lain, wanita yang membuat gambar di kulitnya (tubuh) dengan tusukan dan wanita yang meminta kulitnya dibuat gambar dengan tusukan (alat pengukir)"..(Hadis bil. 1685 : Sahih Bukhari)
Jelas Dato' Abu Hasan Din Al-Hafiz : " inai berukir ala tatu tak boleh! Ia dilaknat Allah. Inai berukir bentuk awan larat atau bentuk gambar itu dalam kategori tatu, kalau nak pakai inai, pakailah betul-betul hujung jari".

Marilah kita membuat pengislahan dalam diri kita agar kita tidak tergolong dalam hamba-hamba Allah yang melanggar syariatNya..

wallahu'alam...

Thursday, May 29, 2008

Tuesday, May 20, 2008

industrial Training

This the first time to be the independent person to work alone in the industrial training day. To be the 3 month to be work in the department of IT.
The biggest changes of environment in my day life. Work normal shift from 8.00am until 5.00pm. Quites good and comfortable to be in the working environment.

Saturday, March 29, 2008

LIFE MUST GO ON.

There are lots of challenges in our day of life but the challenge will make the person more successful and more matured. Without the problems or other interruption you will not learn how to become a person, people, to go through the days that past and come in the future.

We must brave to challenge everything that had come to us. Make the things simple, easy to judge and resolve. There is nothing impossible in our life. But there are still problems in our life that we cannot solve die and sick. That’s the gods want, we can’t fight it.

Be the best among the best. The quantity is not important but the quality is the thing comes first from the other. Whatever threat we must fight it. We must face, that’s makes we more successful in the future.

Life must go on, don’t give up easily. Work hard and trust yourself.

Thursday, March 27, 2008

What are the methods that I use in persuading people…..?


Introduction

Persuasive speaking is all around us. Any speech is persuasive if its purpose is to convince other to change their feelings, beliefs, or behavior.

For me the method that I use to make persuading speech is very simple. Be alert that persuading speech is very challenging speech because it required a lot of skills. Imagine that you are talk to someone that you didn’t know at all and want to explain something to her or she that you are right and experts about something that you involve. The first thing for me is the first impression because with the good first impression, people or some audience will judge your personalities refers to your character its self.

Next the way that I deliver the speech. We must have enough evidence to convince the customers or audience. Without the evidence they will not belief in you. If you try to sell something make sure you bought the product, give the example to the audience ask them to try it. Ask them how about the product. At that time must persuade them so that they will trust you. Make them understand, explain about the benefits and much more about the advantages of the product. Never tell them about the disadvantages of your product or company that you represent.

Talk to the audience with nice range of voice. Makes everybody hear your voice clear what you are talking about. It’s not easy to persuade people especially the persons that we did not know at all.

Make the preparation. For me preparation is very important. Standby, relax and chill about your costumer’s behavior. Be patient, it will help. Prove to the audience, prove to all that you are right.

I think that’s the best and benefits method that I usually used to persuading people. If there any way or solution to solve it you can use it also. This is my method and based on my truth experience.

There is nothing impossible if we work hard. Thinks one step in front of the others so you can be the best among the best, trust me.

The Experience of giving The Informative Speech.


To build the Informative speech is like you build a house. For both constructions, you first need a blueprint, a vision of what you want to build.

To be truth and straight to the point I want to share with you all about my experience in giving an informative speech. In term the preparation, choosing the suitable topic and how I face the situation on the presentation day.

All of us will be shaking while in front of the people that we don’t know or we know to deliver a speech. Even the professional speech also will be shaking while in front the audience. In my preparation in giving information speech is I always refer to my lecturer and ask him. So that I can be prepare early before making any trouble on the stage… hehehehe. The topic that I choose is usually about the latest story, the story that base on the truth and have the evidence to prove it, so that it will convince the audience.

At the presentation day my face…. Ohhh god very scare, shaking all over my body. Just try to relax but it will not help me. As a Muslim we have to Istifhar a lot so that we could overcome our nervous. Confidence with yourself, believe in you. Say in your heart you can do it. There is nothing is impossible in our life. If we work hard we can get what we want, Insyallah. But prepare and practice will make you perfect. Prepare early it will be better. If not ask your lecturer they will help you, trust me.

During the speech my voice……hard to imagine. Shaking and trembled that I even realize my voice, my face becomes blurring….. By making the Q card it will help if you are forgot about what you want to talk to the audience.

The event is still fresh in my mind, but that is the truth experience that I will never forget until today. Not everyone have an opportunity to speech in front of many people that we don’t know. For me preparation is very important, without preparation it is difficult to deliver and make a good speech in front of the audiences.

Thinking on Your Feet.(Impromptu Speeches)


Thinking is something people do all day long. “Thinking on your feet” means being able to organize ones ideas quickly and speak about a subject without advance time to prepare. This type of speech is often called an impromptu speech.

When do we make impromptu speeches? We make them all the time. Most of our conversations with friends, lecturer and employers are really short impromptu talks. These impromptu talks might include answering question, giving opinions, or sharing knowledge about the many topics we discuss with people on a daily basis. As you can see, you already have experience giving impromptu speech.